One Night Stand
A freind of mine found herself in a complicated situation. How does she have a one night stand with someone she's attracted to and walk away without getting hurt. I say don't, one night stands are difficult at best. But Would you?
posted by Stunuh Jay at 7:57 AM
10 Comments:
A one night stand with someone you know well & share mutual attraction with soon ends up with being a relationship.
If your friend's really feeling this person she could just come out clean & tell him straight up what her feelings for him are.
Just my thoughts.
Stand on one leg all night long? Heheh, lemme see...one leg up already & am still standing...
Alcohol helps!They should go out, have drinks and let the alcohol be the scapegoat!
That situation can sometimes bring in difficulties. It really depends on the individuals involved. I've seen these type of situations go both ways. It's either cool or "damn...I knew I shouldn't have mess witht this *&%#@!"
if the attraction is physical, then let her go for it. otherwise its a 50-50 situation, they wil either come out unscathed or they will put each other off and usually it doesn't end well.
A successful one night stand is only possible if both parties harbour no feelings for the other. Otherwise, emotions get involved one or both ways and create another problem altogether. I say don't do it if you're not prepared for the consequences.
Let her tell him what she feels then when the jamaa discloses what he feels for her she will determine to go for it or never.
It depends: If the chick has feelings and the jamaa just wants quick one, then tell her not to. If they both have feelings for each other: ABSOLUTELY NOT- 1 night stands are simply that a shag and good bye. so if they have feelings let them deal with them then shag as much as they want.
Me without a doubt i would have a one night stand. Especially if it has been a while
One night stands should remain just that. It's usually awkward running into the person later. I don't think they're a solid base for a relationship. It could be a set-up for major disappointment. But there are some exceptions.
woi.. that's a tough one better off avoided!
I hear y'all and I post what happened next.
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