Let's weigh the facts:

1) He's cousin coming to town is a national event, yesterday it turns into an 'oh-by-the way he's in town so you know I have to go spend time with him'
2) He buys my ticket to Jen's wedding....spending money on me, no more than $100, at any given event, is this generousity a side effect of a guilt complex?
3) He says that he will only be dropping off the toys to the little girl's party and then he'd be off after that, yesterday, it turns into 'yeah I'll be going back'
4) He buys 3 toys for this child who isn't directly related to him and barely a toy for he's neice...he's sister kid! Who's he trying to impress?
5) He e-mails me the 'cracking the get rich code' and you can only get it from someone who had it before....so who sent it to him, 'dearest stephie'
6) Stephie invites him to some seminar on selling real estate...I find out about it when he get's home tired and grumpy i.e after the fact.

So the question begs to be asked, how long has he been in contact with Stephie, when did he even get her e-mail address? Is there anything, I should be aware of? Not to mention the guilt that creeps into he's voice when he says Stephie, or the paranoia when I make a joke about him not seeing Stephie at the party he's going back to.